Stop eating my fruit snacks after you bang my mom
If you’ve ever found yourself in a complicated living situation, you know that boundaries are important. But lately, there’s been a unique problem in my household: someone keeps eating my fruit snacks after spending time with my mom. It’s time to address this with the seriousness it deserves.
Fruit Snacks Are Sacred
Let’s get one thing straight—fruit snacks aren’t just a snack; they’re a symbol of comfort, nostalgia, and personal space. Whether you’re grabbing a pack after a long day or saving them for a midnight treat, these little pouches of joy are meant for the person who bought them. When someone else helps themselves, it’s more than just a minor inconvenience—it’s an invasion of privacy.
Respect the Snack Boundaries
After you’ve finished your adult activities with my mom, it’s only respectful to leave my snacks alone. There are plenty of other food options in the kitchen. My fruit snacks are clearly labeled and, frankly, off limits. It’s not just about the snacks—it’s about respecting me and my space. Please, grab a granola bar or make yourself a sandwich, but don’t touch the snacks I bought with my own money.
The Importance of Communication
If you’re unsure about which snacks are fair game, let’s talk. Communication is key in any household, especially one with complicated dynamics. A simple “Hey, can I have some fruit snacks?” goes a long way. But until we have that conversation, consider them strictly off-limits.
Find Your Own Favorite Treat
Everyone has their own favorite snack. If you’re going to be around more often, maybe it’s time to pick out your own snack and keep a stash for yourself. That way, you won’t be tempted to raid mine, and we can both enjoy our treats without any drama.
Setting Healthy Household Habits
Living together—no matter the circumstances—means respecting each other’s belongings. Whether it’s food, space, or time, boundaries help everyone feel comfortable. So let’s make a deal: you enjoy your time with my mom, but leave my fruit snacks out of it.
